Comments on: Your Voice, Your Story – How I Escaped a Violent Marriage

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#WAYWOW 50 What are you up to? Inspire me! - View From In Here — Wed, 25 May 2016 00:56:19 +0000

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By: Nikki Frank-Hamilton

Nikki Frank-Hamilton — Mon, 23 May 2016 12:33:54 +0000

My first marriage was a bit like this. Nothing physical, but the mental and verbal abuse was horrible. It has followed me through life and it took a long time to figure things out. Most people thought that I was being crazy, that he wouldn’t do those things, I was exaggerating. Once he threatened to kill me, then people started to believe me.

I am so happy that you got away, and that you have the chance to build a new life, not everyone does.

Haidee, this is a great series, and I hope by reading the stories that people will be more empathetic towards those who are sharing and that those that are still trapped will be able to find the strength to get away. xx

By: Sanch @ Living my Imperfect Life

Sanch @ Living my Imperfect Life — Sun, 22 May 2016 10:30:54 +0000

Thank you for sharing this story. It’s scary that DV can happen to anyone. There’s a myth that it’s the uneducated or the low SES communities where it is more prevalent but I’ve seen wealthy people become victims of family violence. It’s just hidden better. I’m so glad you got out.

By: Renee Wilson

Renee Wilson — Fri, 20 May 2016 03:16:18 +0000

What a terrifying experience for you and for it to go on for years. My heart goes out to you. Good on you for having the courage to make a break. I hope all is well for you and your little one now.

By: Natalie @ Our Parallel Connection

Natalie @ Our Parallel Connection — Fri, 20 May 2016 02:07:18 +0000

Your beautiful friend is not only brave but an inspiration and she should be so proud of herself (anther daughter will thank her one day)

By: Zeb

Zeb — Thu, 19 May 2016 19:03:41 +0000

Have faith in humanity, Valerie and move on to find a partner for life. Very few of us get what we want in the first try. For most of us, it takes a few beating to achieve our dreams, find our life partner, as in your case. So, fly away, and do not stop till you find what you are looking for.

By: Lizzie

Lizzie — Thu, 19 May 2016 12:01:01 +0000

Oh gosh, I am in tears. Just so glad you got out when you did and so sad you had to go through it. What a brave woman you are Valerie. Thank you so much for sharing and for showing your little baby, just how brave and courageous you are by giving her a safe life without him.

By: Michelle

Michelle — Wed, 18 May 2016 17:35:10 +0000

I am so glad you got away! Having witnessed domestic violence as a kid, then finding myself in a domestic violence situation as an adult, I can completely relate and am so glad you found a way out. It is one of the hardest things a person has to do but once you leave, at least for me, I felt like a whole new person! Thank you so much for sharing your story! #waywow

By: Jessica

Jessica — Wed, 18 May 2016 15:14:57 +0000

So scary, but unfortunately,something I can relate to. While I wasn’t married, I had a boyfriend who acted similarly. I was able to get out of the situation, too, but sometimes, it hits me where I would be if I hadn’t. I’m glad that you got out, and got your daughter out.

By: Fern P

Fern P — Wed, 18 May 2016 07:36:38 +0000

This story chilled me to my bones. Thank you for being brave enough to share it, Valerie. I’m so glad you got away safely. #waywow